Blokes using the ladies loo

Karim_myBagheri

Wasn't sure how to word the title and if there's already a thread on this as no doubt there's probably several then admin please delete. 

Bloke with a very butch voice and stubble in a pub dressed as a woman, very glamorous like, (put some real effort into it unlike some of the girls who can't even be arsed to change out of their dressing gowns and pyjamas to go down to the shops) who has just used the ladies loos.
 Now is this socially acceptable for those on here, particularly the ladies to think as you're using the loo that in the cubicle next to you is a rather large man standing up lifting up his skirt to have a piss.

Thoughts? 

DaveMehmet

Do ladies cubicles have glory holes (asking for a friend)

cafcnick1992

I'm sure you'll get some extreme left wing opinions on this, but as far as I'm concerned, I wouldn't want my daughter using a toilet next to an adult male.

Gillis

What are the odds this thread doesn't make it past three pages?

cafcnick1992 said:

I'm sure you'll get some extreme left wing opinions on this, but as far as I'm concerned, I wouldn't want my daughter using a toilet next to an adult male.

It wouldn't bother me if Lenin or Stalin used the ladies' loos.

Is that the sort of thing you mean?

Rob

Difficult one this. Is it uncomfortable for us because that’s all we’ve known for the majority of our lives or is it uncomfortable because, naturally, we just don’t like it. I must admit, as a male I don’t mind it but I’m not sure how women would feel about it. 

usetobunkin

I believe in Live and Let Live, but some stuff I don’t have a clue about. 

I would have thought transgender would affect 1 in a million. 

But feels wrong a man who dresses as a woman to use a Ladies loo.

Greenhithe

Couldn’t care less. It doesn’t matter. Not one bit. 

Not sure what “left wing” has to do with getting your cock out either. 

iaitch

DaveMehmet said:

Do ladies cubicles have glory holes (asking for a friend)

A friend of a friend told me they do.

guinnessaddick

Greenhithe said:

Couldn’t care less. It doesn’t matter. Not one bit. 

Not sure what “left wing” has to do with getting your cock out either. 

Surely it depends on what side you dress on?

Hal1x

guinnessaddick said:

Greenhithe said:

Couldn’t care less. It doesn’t matter. Not one bit. 

Not sure what “left wing” has to do with getting your cock out either. 

Surely it depends on what side you dress on?

I dress on the side nearest the wardrobe next to the door- is that useful?

soapy_jones

More interested in what sort of pubs you hang around in Karim...

Solidgone

I was in a pub that had unisex toilets. There would be the normal urinals and cubicles. It didn’t really bother me but a man could be wrongly accused of inappropriate behaviour towards a woman and would find it very difficult to persuade otherwise. 
It puts men in a difficult situation and so I think single sex toilets should remain (male trans should use the men’s bog).

Karim_myBagheri

iaitch said:

DaveMehmet said:

Do ladies cubicles have glory holes (asking for a friend)

A friend of a friend told me they do.

Dave's now trying on his missus frock... 

ForeverAddickted

Was in a pub years ago in Rio, went to the toilet and for the life of me couldn't work out which was the Gents, and which was the Ladies toilets

So decided to chance it... Am standing there at the toilet with nothing but some Wild West Bar type shutters for privacy, and have heard something behind me - Looked round and after having a 50/50 chance of guessing the right toilet to be in... and realised I've picked the wrong bloody one, as two local women are standing there laughing at me!!

DaveMehmet

A few years ago went into The Jalsha in Sidcup for the first time after it opened. Had been in the pub and needed a piss so went straight to the bogs, into a cubicle, unleashed a piss a cart horse would have been proud of and farted loudly. When I came out there was a woman washing her hands at the sink and I said to her “I’m guessing this is not the men’s then”? 

She said no, laughed and “to be honest I did think you were making a lot of noise for a lady”

Karim_myBagheri

soapy_jones said:

More interested in what sort of pubs you hang around in Karim...

Classy establishments bit like this place..

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1nSYZVsHnVU&pp=ygUYU3RhbmRhcmQgcHViIGluIEVuZ2xhbmQg

Karim_myBagheri

ForeverAddickted said:

Was in a pub years ago in Rio, went to the toilet and for the life of me couldn't work out which was the Gents, and which was the Ladies toilets

So decided to chance it... Am standing there at the toilet with nothing but some Wild West Bar type shutters for privacy, and have heard something behind me - Looked round and after having a 50/50 chance of guessing the right toilet to be in... and realised I've picked the wrong bloody one, as two local women are standing there laughing at me!!

Bit harsh. Sorry to hear this, surely it can't be that funny. 

LargeAddick

My wife said she wouldn’t like it.

We went into a restaurants toilets a little while ago and it was mixed. Didn’t bother me but the wife didn’t like the idea that she was using a loo previously used by a man. But what neither of us liked was the fact there were also urinals in there. I don’t think that is right at all.

PaddyP17

LargeAddick said:

My wife said she wouldn’t like it.

We went into a restaurants toilets a little while ago and it was mixed. Didn’t bother me but the wife didn’t like the idea that she was using a loo previously used by a man. But what neither of us liked was the fact there were also urinals in there. I don’t think that is right at all.

Do you segregate your toilets at home then?

stop_shouting

Protect women’s spaces.

LargeAddick

PaddyP17 said:

LargeAddick said:

My wife said she wouldn’t like it.

We went into a restaurants toilets a little while ago and it was mixed. Didn’t bother me but the wife didn’t like the idea that she was using a loo previously used by a man. But what neither of us liked was the fact there were also urinals in there. I don’t think that is right at all.

Do you segregate your toilets at home then?

Difference is my wife knows where I’ve been. 

PaddyP17

I'll get my piece out the way- hopefully before any of the usual suspects says "right on cue" about me.

I don't think signs on toilet doors are going to stop predators, as an early post in the thread implies. Toilets are where people do their business. My friend Emma does not "pass" - like many trans women, I assume - but she'd be judged a "freak" no matter what bathroom she tries to use, by the people inclined to do so.

Wrong'uns are wrong'uns regardless.

(Edited to remove references to specific posters)

Valleyfan2

Opens up all sorts of issues. Would the same bloke be allowed to use ladies changing rooms and showers at the swimming baths it changing rooms in shops? 

Braziliance

Up to the women.

Of all the women I know, not one of them is comfortable with it. That answers the question for me.

Hal1x

LargeAddick said:

PaddyP17 said:

LargeAddick said:

My wife said she wouldn’t like it.

We went into a restaurants toilets a little while ago and it was mixed. Didn’t bother me but the wife didn’t like the idea that she was using a loo previously used by a man. But what neither of us liked was the fact there were also urinals in there. I don’t think that is right at all.

Do you segregate your toilets at home then?

Difference is my wife knows where I’ve been. 

mostly over the floor and seat, at least thats where my wife tells me.

shirty5

Hal1x said:

LargeAddick said:

PaddyP17 said:

LargeAddick said:

My wife said she wouldn’t like it.

We went into a restaurants toilets a little while ago and it was mixed. Didn’t bother me but the wife didn’t like the idea that she was using a loo previously used by a man. But what neither of us liked was the fact there were also urinals in there. I don’t think that is right at all.

Do you segregate your toilets at home then?

Difference is my wife knows where I’ve been. 

mostly over the floor and seat, at least thats where my wife tells me.

If you sprinkle when you tinkle, please be neat and wipe the seat

MrOneLung

Not averse to mixed toilets, but should be only cubicles, no urinals

Wheresmeticket

cafcnick1992 said:

I'm sure you'll get some extreme left wing opinions on this, but as far as I'm concerned, I wouldn't want my daughter using a toilet next to an adult male.

WTF does your political bias have to do with it?

SporadicAddick

Swap “ladies loo” in the opening post to “ladies changing room”. 

If you advocate for acceptance of the first on the basis of equality, then logically you would support the latter.

I don’t want my daughters being exposed to women / men / people with penises in what is a gender specific facility for a reason - the safety of women.

Carter

This is the easiest "absolutely no fucking way" ever. 

Unisex toilets, yeah whatever, crack on.  Men, biological men using female toilets or changing rooms. No, its just a challenge to be honest and one that will invariably follow a sad face social media post saying how unjust the world is expecting men to use mens facilities. 

It amazes me the discussion is even taking place. 

Carter

PaddyP17 said:

LargeAddick said:

My wife said she wouldn’t like it.

We went into a restaurants toilets a little while ago and it was mixed. Didn’t bother me but the wife didn’t like the idea that she was using a loo previously used by a man. But what neither of us liked was the fact there were also urinals in there. I don’t think that is right at all.

Do you segregate your toilets at home then?

Of course he doesn't, they are private to those in the home and my best guess is only used by one person at a time. 

A mate of mines dad has a colostomy bag so has to do a tiny bit of life admin when thinking about toilets. He carries a radar key and uses the disabled bogs where they exist, trans people can do the same and avoid any situation where they can virtue signal and falsely claim the world is out to get them