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  • I wish I were living in England. Like I said in another thread the other day, people here in China are obsessed with (women's) age. 31 is already considered as a 'left behind' age for women in most places in China. And 99.99% of men only date women younger than them. For example I've heard many times some men born in the late 70's or early 80's claim they are only interested in women born in the 90's..... (I don't know them. I just hear this from other people)

    Some of the good things you have said about age/women in this thread will never be heard from most Chinese men. You are on totally another level of civilisation and values.

    So basically if you're a single chinese woman in your late 30s/early 40s..........then you're struggling.
    Yes struggling to find a boyfriend/husband, not struggling in other areas. I've heard a few stories about single women of this age living a comfortable life albeit without a partner. I've been trying to stay positive, too. Being single gives me free time and space at least.... and fewer things to worry about, for now....
    Blimey Jessie you might think so and despite the cultural attitudes where you are, you really have only just started life at 31. As you say, remain positive and I'm sure that it won't be long 'til you meet the partner of your dreams.

    I look forward to hearing about that on this thread when if happens. That's not "if it happens", it is "when it happens".
  • ricky_otto
    ricky_otto Posts: 22,600

    Having said that, I have always lusted over the more mature lady.

    Mature or dead?
  • Having said that, I have always lusted over the more mature lady.

    Mature or dead?
    Not to be answered on a public forum.
  • I used to have an old flame in Blackpool who was 60. Thankfully people on here talked me out of it.
  • EastStand
    EastStand Posts: 4,109

    When I was a young man of twenty I had a brief fling with a forty two year old hairdresser who was the spitting image of Brigitte Nielsen minus the boob job. I still see her around though nowadays she looks more like Denis Nilsen (pre-death but only just).

    Hairdresser? Up North?

    Was she from Blackpool by chance?!
    That is my favourite part of the internet ever - please someone find the thread and post it here. So many new members will not have experienced the joy.
  • stackitsteve
    stackitsteve Posts: 12,102
    EastStand said:

    When I was a young man of twenty I had a brief fling with a forty two year old hairdresser who was the spitting image of Brigitte Nielsen minus the boob job. I still see her around though nowadays she looks more like Denis Nilsen (pre-death but only just).

    Hairdresser? Up North?

    Was she from Blackpool by chance?!
    That is my favourite part of the internet ever - please someone find the thread and post it here. So many new members will not have experienced the joy.
    https://forum.charltonlife.com/discussion/49668/advice-needed-cant-ask-the-wife/p1
  • Oh god. What have I started.
  • Elthamaddick
    Elthamaddick Posts: 15,811
    I’m 44 and my missus is 35 (36 next month) perfect age gap in my opinion
  • lolwray said:

    I feel a Bobby Goldsboro song coming on

    Didn't he play centre half for us in the 70s?
  • bobmunro said:

    Who else thinks @paulie8290 needs to come clean and reveal just how big the age difference was?

    I'm going with a Wayne Rooney-esque 30 year gap.

    It was over 30 years haha
    40? 50?
    Just under 40

    I was 21 she was 57
    Winner right here folks roll roll up and see the winner right here name in lights

    Paulie8290
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  • Manicmania
    Manicmania Posts: 1,594
    I was 21, just out of a relationship with my school sweetheart (5 years together both aged 16) got wasted one night and ended up meeting a 34 year old South american girl called Luce (pronounced loochay but I just called her Lucy) It's true what they say about Latinos absolute filth she was... Used to break into Portuguese in bed... God knows what she was saying but whenever i hear the song Miami by will Smith it always reminds me of her lol. Not ashamed to admit she was WAY more than I could handle (probably still would be now 13 years later!) She was a bit too fiery personality wise for me in the end and it ended in an almighty blow-out in the middle of a nightclub - fisticuffs were had (not by me I just got a beating) But it was an education and a month I won't ever forget.
  • johnnybev1987
    johnnybev1987 Posts: 11,411
    edited November 2018
    My Aunt is with someone who is my cousins mates from when he was younger, used to be his best friend. They have just got engaged recently

    Auntie is 47 (not 100% but around this) he was 30 this year, they have been together now for 6-7 years, we all work together too. Kind of awkward at first when he used to go on holiday with them as my cousins mate. At first it was frowned upon by most of the family and they thought maybe a phase after her previous break up, gradually people have been won over and they are very happy together.

    My cousin for first few years obviously wouldn't have anything to do with his mate, but gradually they are ok now, they wont ever be as close which is understandable but we do all go golf occasionally now. It does look a bit odd if you think about the age and the fact it was his close friend but as long as they are happy.....

    For me , when i was 20 i definately pulled people probably towards the late 40s. Only pull not actually slept with.

    I would say ideal age for me 25-35 (however that might depend on how they are, there is a 23 year old i would get with if single as she is mature but others i wouldn't just because they are hot)
  • paulie8290
    paulie8290 Posts: 23,344
    I was always told your age limit should be
    Twice your age minus 7
    Or
    Half your age plus 7(as long as its legal)
  • SuedeAdidas
    SuedeAdidas Posts: 7,741

    I was always told your age limit should be
    Twice your age minus 7
    Or
    Half your age plus 7(as long as its legal)

    I was 20 and my nan was 60


    Damn. 27 years out.
  • SE10Addick
    SE10Addick Posts: 2,963

    I was always told your age limit should be
    Twice your age minus 7
    Or
    Half your age plus 7(as long as its legal)

    Doesn’t work that well as you get older mate.

    Not sure I can see me getting hold of a 75 year old!
  • Sexually I was a late starter (not for lack of trying on my behalf, I must add), but I lost my virginity at 18 and half to a colleague who was 29 and had a 12 year old son! I was completely overwhelmed as she was extremely adventurous. Sex outdoors being the most mild of the fun we had.
    Now I’m 56 and my wife is 44.
  • bobmunro
    bobmunro Posts: 20,843

    I was always told your age limit should be
    Twice your age minus 7
    Or
    Half your age plus 7(as long as its legal)

    So my upper limit is 115 and my lower limit 37 - decisions, decisions.
  • ElfsborgAddick
    ElfsborgAddick Posts: 29,034
    edited November 2018
    My biggest age difference was 7 years, we started seeing each other when I was 35 and she was 42. I had no problems with it but for her it was always an issue.

    Not long after I first started seeing her she told me she had false choppers, being the mature geezer I am for me it was never a problem. For her it was, to the point she would NEVER take them out in my company. One day I even said I'd bung her £100 if she took her teeth out, she still said no.

    Annnnnnywaay, one night we went out for a few drinks and then coming home I made a crack and she burst out laughing and out flew her top plate flying to the floor!!! It was the fastest I'd ever seen her move and the dirty bugger grabbed them and put the top plate back in her mouth! Needless to say we did not have any naughties that night.

    I left the following day and she had time to stuff them into the Steradant.
  • DA9
    DA9 Posts: 11,091
    Me 51, other half 38
  • I was always told your age limit should be
    Twice your age minus 7
    Or
    Half your age plus 7(as long as its legal)

    Derives from the fact that the age of consent is 16 and you ‘shouldn’t’ be with anyone not also of school age ie 18.
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  • ross1
    ross1 Posts: 50,974

    I was always told your age limit should be
    Twice your age minus 7
    Or
    Half your age plus 7(as long as its legal)

    Anyone know where I can find a beauty that is 139 years old but looks like 39
  • ross1 said:

    I was always told your age limit should be
    Twice your age minus 7
    Or
    Half your age plus 7(as long as its legal)

    Anyone know where I can find a beauty that is 139 years old but looks like 39
    Sothebys?
  • North Lower Neil
    North Lower Neil Posts: 22,952
    edited November 2018

    I was always told your age limit should be
    Twice your age minus 7
    Or
    Half your age plus 7(as long as its legal)

    Surely it should be minus 7 then twice that, not twice your age plus 7?

    Otherwise a 30 year old with a 21 year old would be wrong, but a 21 year old would be fine with a 35 year old?
  • daveaddick
    daveaddick Posts: 1,926
    When I was 22 I had a fling with a married lady of 39, why are they always hairdressers?, anyway met her at a family wedding and we started an affair that lasted 6 months we used to meet at the flat above her shop. At first it was amazing as she was obviously very experienced and enthusiastic but to be honest that's all we did and towards the end it became a bit joyless. Looking back it was more about the excitement of doing something that was furtive more than the actual sex. After the affair ended I didn't see her for about 5 years but when we did eventually meet up her frostiness could have iced the Sahara over, lucky escape.
  • When I was 22 I had a fling with a married lady of 39, why are they always hairdressers?, anyway met her at a family wedding and we started an affair that lasted 6 months we used to meet at the flat above her shop. At first it was amazing as she was obviously very experienced and enthusiastic but to be honest that's all we did and towards the end it became a bit joyless. Looking back it was more about the excitement of doing something that was furtive more than the actual sex. After the affair ended I didn't see her for about 5 years but when we did eventually meet up her frostiness could have iced the Sahara over, lucky escape.

    You always got a good blow dry I take It!
  • Carter
    Carter Posts: 14,243
    I've got a peach to add to my own thread

    One of the apprentices got out of a car at the yard this morning (It's their Christmas do tonight) and I was alerted to the event by shouts of CARTER, CARTER COME HERE AND CHECK OUT SMITHYS MUM (names changed to protect the guilty)

    This 18 year old kid was beig dropped off by a very attractive woman who I was sure I recognised and gave her a tender kiss as he left he vehicle.

    The apprentice was not being dropped off by his mum, he was being dropped off by a 37 year old girl I used to go to school with and whom he is shagging 7 nights a week. He's 18 and was not even a tickle in his daddies nutbag when me and her were leaving school.

    I wish in could say I banged her, she was smoking hot in 1997!

    Fortunately because of smartphones and the youth of today's propensity for documenting their genitals and procreation I have seen her intimate body areas at the expense of seeing the apprentices' pencil dick touching her front bottom

    The world has truly changed and I have never felt older
  • SuedeAdidas
    SuedeAdidas Posts: 7,741
    Yeah - but has he had one of her false nails stuck in his small intestine?
  • the Lass is 10 years younger than me, which at my age is just about right, except when it comes to equity release.
  • LennyLowrent
    LennyLowrent Posts: 2,705
    edited November 2018
    My brother in law was my other brother in law's father in law for about a year,
    and that other brother in law's wife was the daughter of her mother in law...