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Lifers' Cancer Updates - Some hopeful news from Palarsehater (p75)

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  • Kap10
    Kap10 Posts: 15,560
    @redman @lancashire lad thank you so much for the updates ♥️

    @Fanny Fanackapan sending love to you & Mr F xxxxx
    Redman, Lancs Lads thank you for the updates and best wishes to Mr F. good luck to you all .
  • Kap10
    Kap10 Posts: 15,560
    This maybe totally inappropriate for this thread so admin please feel free to remove if so.

    Over a year ago I was fortunate that a prostate cancer scare turned out to be a prostate virus.  However, I am acutely aware that prostate cancer needs greater awareness and lobbying of the health services and remain linked in to various prostate charities and organisations including Prostate Cancer Research, who are lobbying Govt for greater prostate screening.

    To help them, they are asking those with a prostate cancer diagnosis to undertake a small survey and i quote

    "We have been gathering data far and wide to feed into this report* (see below). However, one area where we need more information is around the experience of those with a diagnosis of prostate cancer, as well as partners, carers and close family/ friends. We have designed a short survey - the results of which will flow into this socio-economic report - and will help us make the case as to why it is so important that we start screening for prostate cancer. 

    If you have had a diagnosis of prostate cancer or are the partner, carer, close family or close friend of someone who has had a diagnosis we need your help. If you have 5-10 minutes, please do answer our short survey and help us make the case for prostate cancer screening to the government even stronger.

    You can complete the survey here: https://www.smartsurvey.co.uk/s/ProstateCancerExperienceSurvey"

    *"In an earlier email we mentioned a socio-economic report that we are developing. This report is nearing completion. We intend to present the report's findings to the UK National Screening Committee and then to MPs in October."

    Apologies for the length of this and if it is felt inappropriate
  • ElfsborgAddick
    ElfsborgAddick Posts: 29,024
    Happy for you Redman and sending my best to all those fighting this dreadful disease.

    I had a scare a few weeks back where i went in for an abnormal growth/mole (no kenneth williams faces please) I assumed it would just be a looks fine but they sent me away for a month to treat with a cream to see if it looked agitated afterwards. I'm 34 with two young kids and it was incredibly worrying, very fortunate that after a month they took a look and told me it looked benign and was fine still very worrying during the time.
    Now get into the Wetherspoons for a celebratory drink :)
  • HardyAddick
    HardyAddick Posts: 1,636
    I remember looking at my bowel cancer live on a tv screen. It was a shock at the time but it was successfully removed. Try to stay positive and let’s hope The Addicks keep winning!!
  • KBslittlesis
    KBslittlesis Posts: 8,588
    That must be so strange to see @Redmidland
    My love to you ♥️
  • Kap10
    Kap10 Posts: 15,560
    I went to see my Oncologist on Friday, after having my operation cancelled. We sat and discussed different options of chemo that might not have as detrimental effect on me as it did last September. This would involve a different drug given as a 5 hr infusion in my chest, then a break for 3 weeks before going back to hospital again for another 5 hr infusion. This would happen 4 times.
    Sadly, there is no guarantee this will work, and on Friday I was not only told, but, for the first time ever, shown, that whilst the tumour hasn't spread it has grown to the size of a golf ball in my pelvic region. This is what is now causing the pain I experience on a daily basis, with my pain killers now increased, to help me cope.
    Basically I'm back to where I was July 23 when first diagnosed. If the chemo works they'll then operate to remove the rest of it, if not, then they aren't sure what else can be done.
    It was strange staring at my tumour, it's a black and white mass, close to my prostrate.
    I had an immense feeling of hatred for the tumour, yet, I was hating my own body!
    I'm trying to stay positive and concentrating my MH on the tumour, with everything I can.
    I'm going to give it my best shot and hope the chemo works with me and not against me.
    In the meantime I hope CAFC keep winning and I can win alongside them
    Live, Love, Laugh and Be Happy xx
    ##fxxxcancer 

    Best wishes to you! Hoping for the best! 
  • redman
    redman Posts: 5,285
    Best wishes, thoughts and prayers with you. Stay positive 
  • PeterGage
    PeterGage Posts: 1,793
    Best wishes, Redmidland.
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  • Sillybilly
    Sillybilly Posts: 9,234
    Best wishes RM. Stay strong. 
  • Arsenetatters
    Arsenetatters Posts: 5,970
    Seeing it must be a strange feeling but now you know what it looks like you can visualise it shrinking with every treatment you have x
  • lancashire lad
    lancashire lad Posts: 15,624
    good luck Malc
    unfortunately the Lymphoma has beaten The Lass who is now just being kept comfortable, I had hoped that I would get her home but I think she will remain in Southampton Hospital where I shall go tomorrow and stay until the end, unless of course it gets better for a while, but I don't think so. BASTARD DISEASE
  • bolloxbolder
    bolloxbolder Posts: 7,958
    So sorry to hear that @lancashire lad
  • Oh, Lancs, that is heartbreaking news. 

    Everything we get stressed, angry, depressed about pales into insignificance.

    Our thoughts are with you & your Lass as you do your best to stay strong for her .

    Sending best love to you both x
  • Our love & positive thoughts winging their way to you, RM x
  • ME14addick
    ME14addick Posts: 9,761
    Best wishes RM and so sorry to hear your news Lancashire Lad. 
  • Addick Addict
    Addick Addict Posts: 39,758
    All the very best RM. Desperately sorry to read your update Lancs. 
  • stonemuse
    stonemuse Posts: 33,995
    good luck Malc
    unfortunately the Lymphoma has beaten The Lass who is now just being kept comfortable, I had hoped that I would get her home but I think she will remain in Southampton Hospital where I shall go tomorrow and stay until the end, unless of course it gets better for a while, but I don't think so. BASTARD DISEASE
    ❤️ 
  • Davo55
    Davo55 Posts: 7,836
    Very sad and difficult updates from RM and LL. Thoughts and best wishes with you and your families.
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  • Redmidland
    Redmidland Posts: 44,700
    So very sorry to read your news @lancashire lad. Please give my love to your lass, and I hope something turns up for her and she can beat this disease xx
  • Weegie Addick
    Weegie Addick Posts: 16,518
    Sending you every strength to keep fighting @Redmidland.

    Heartfelt wishes to you and the Lass @lancashire lad. Such a tough and heartbreaking time xxx
  • WSA
    WSA Posts: 1,911
    Sending love to you @lancashire lad and your Lass.

    Hoping the new chemo zaps your golfball @Redmidland
  • DPFC
    DPFC Posts: 320
    @lancashire lad so sorry to hear your news.
  • KBslittlesis
    KBslittlesis Posts: 8,588
    Feck it @lancashire lad my love to you and your beloved Lass ♥️
  • Arsenetatters
    Arsenetatters Posts: 5,970
    So sad for you and the Lass @lancashire lad.
    sending you both love x
  • Valley Ant
    Valley Ant Posts: 465
    I went to see my Oncologist on Friday, after having my operation cancelled. We sat and discussed different options of chemo that might not have as detrimental effect on me as it did last September. This would involve a different drug given as a 5 hr infusion in my chest, then a break for 3 weeks before going back to hospital again for another 5 hr infusion. This would happen 4 times.
    Sadly, there is no guarantee this will work, and on Friday I was not only told, but, for the first time ever, shown, that whilst the tumour hasn't spread it has grown to the size of a golf ball in my pelvic region. This is what is now causing the pain I experience on a daily basis, with my pain killers now increased, to help me cope.
    Basically I'm back to where I was July 23 when first diagnosed. If the chemo works they'll then operate to remove the rest of it, if not, then they aren't sure what else can be done.
    It was strange staring at my tumour, it's a black and white mass, close to my prostrate.
    I had an immense feeling of hatred for the tumour, yet, I was hating my own body!
    I'm trying to stay positive and concentrating my MH on the tumour, with everything I can.
    I'm going to give it my best shot and hope the chemo works with me and not against me.
    In the meantime I hope CAFC keep winning and I can win alongside them
    Live, Love, Laugh and Be Happy xx
    ##fxxxcancer 

    I remember being shown the XRay of my lymphoma.
    I said to the doctor that I didn't like the look of that shadow.
    He replied "That's your heart"....
  • Redmidland
    Redmidland Posts: 44,700
    Just back from seeing my surgeon. We met so we could discuss a plan going forward. Sadly they were not expecting the tumour to grow so quickly after the 'radiotherapy' did actually work!
    It turns out I have a 'rare' type of bowel cancer, and now its too dangerous to operate.
    I'll have a new kind of chemo for 3 months, if the chemo works, they'll operate and remove what's left. If the chemo doesn't work it's not looking good I'm afraid. So another battle begins and one, it seems, I have to win.
    Live, Love, Laugh and Be Happy xx
    Take care
    Malc
  • N01R4M
    N01R4M Posts: 2,577
    Wishing you the best of luck, Malc.

  • DPFC
    DPFC Posts: 320
    Keep fighting redmidland i have just returned after seeing my oncologist. After three months on a new chemo it appears the progression has in some places has slowed but not shrunk anything.  I have got to wait a week now to see what they decide.  Apparently there is a drug un use thats not yet been proved on the NHS in England as cost effective. But if i want to try it privately it wouls cost  £2k a month. Not keen