Thanks for the comments it helps listening to other experiences, my girlfriend has taken it in a different way than me where she has just not spoken to anyone and I've got it off my chest a bit. I think it's very hard to accept and we had so many plans like moving into our new home in Blackfen with george this month and silly things like taking him to charlton every other week.. I had a charlton shirt ready for him so I'm going to put that in his coffin when I say bye for the last time. Thanks again for the support it is really appreciated.
Jake - My strong sense, is that not only did you not waste the time you had , but with selflessness you grasped the opportunity to "be present" in every sense, in your partners and sons greatest time of need.
I hope and pray that in time , the opportunity to be there for them both will mean this tragedy be a less an open wound and more as a scar that is a constant reminder of your shared experience. Something that will remain for ever but will not damage you. On the contrary it will be a source of strength and peace
Things have certainly been unbelievably tough for you both, and your relationship may well get tested in the future, but you will need each other for mutual support and I hope you have a close group of family and friends to provide the help you will both need. The thoughts and prayers of your Charlton family are with you.
taking him to charlton every other week.. I had a charlton shirt ready for him so I'm going to put that in his coffin when I say bye for the last time.
Jake. Your lad is an Addick. He is one of us and always will be. I am watching tonight with a few fans at home and we are all going to raise a glass for your boy at kick off.
Deepest sympathies to you and your family, Jake....we lost our little son at 33 weeks to a placental abruption. It was extremely difficult for my wife to give birth knowing Trevor was already gone. Our doctor warned us that my wife would have a more difficult time coping having carried our son but that time would help. Our daughter was born a little more than a year after. That was almost 24 years ago and our beautiful daughter has now given us our first granddaughter. That is not to take away from the deep sense of loss you will continue to feel because every year at December 16, we remember our little Trevor. Take the time to grieve, stay close to family & friends and communicate openly & honestly with your partner - be attentive to her needs.....the strength you have shown getting through this ordeal will be called upon in future. Thoughts are with you & your family.......
Late to this news - so sorry to hear this, Jake, RIP George -he made his mark as you say. Wishing you and your partner every strength from here - stay close.
So deeply sorry mate to hear this - my heart and prayers go out to you. I dont have all the answers but I know that God hears when you cry out sincerely. Stand strong
So, so sorry to hear of your heart breaking news. I wish you and your partner the very best during this trying time; remember George is up there looking down on you every day. There probably is no reason why you and your partner will not have a healthy baby in the future. What no better way than if it's a boy to name him George or if a girl, Georgina, in lasting memory to their battling big brother? All the best and be strong and patient with each other.
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RIP George.
I hope and pray that in time , the opportunity to be there for them both will mean this tragedy be a less an open wound and more as a scar that is a constant reminder of your shared experience. Something that will remain for ever but will not damage you. On the contrary it will be a source of strength and peace
RIP little George
Wishing you and your girlfriend lots of love.
The thoughts and prayers of your Charlton family are with you.
You are constantly in my thoughts.
Thoughts with you and your family.
My heartfelt condolences to you both on the sad loss of baby George. Be brave and strong for each other.
RIP baby George.
Tragic news and thoughts and prayers to you and your girlfriend Jake.
Two friends of mine have gone through similar, it happens more than people realise which is so so sad.
Thinking of you and your partner at this sad time.
Rip baby George.
RIP baby George..................