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My Uncle, My Hero

MuttleyCAFC
MuttleyCAFC Posts: 47,728
edited May 2018 in Not Sports Related
I am half Italian. My mothers maiden name was Smith and I grew up in London, but my dad was Italian and met my mother when she was on holiday and came over here to live when they married. We would go to Italy for a month every year and stay on my grandparents farm in a place called Forli. Mussolini was born in Predappio which is a province of Forli. Our Uncle Irlando (named after the Irish struggle against the British) spoiled us. He took us out and we just loved him more than I can express. As we got older we learned of his bravery and principles. He later became mayor of the Emelia Romangna Region of Italy and was head of Education and wrote published books on the subject.

I have just returned to Italy where I scattered his ashes in the mountains were he was a partizan during the war. From the beginning of the war the Nazis were after him and they nearly caught him a few times- once when he was hiding in an attic whilst they were searching the house looking for him. Had they caught him, he would have been shot and hung upside down from a lamp post in the town centre. That is what the Nazi's did to women and even teenagers who opposed them. Irlando was a teenager on national service before Italy was split by the war. He was part of a troop and was made second in command. When it was clear that troop would become part of a fascist army, and when the commander was away, my uncle -as acting leader - still in his teens signed papers to dissolve the troop.

He was on the run after that and became a partizan. He always cared about people and social justice. I recall in the 70s he fostered a young boy from Chile who's family were victims of the fascist regime there. There are many stories of the bravery of the partizans of which my uncle was one. In the cemetery in Forli there is a monument/grave to fallen partizans. One story was of a Nazi raid were thepartizans fleed. A young woman who was epileptic fitted. Knowing her husband wouldn't flee and seek to save her, she shot herself. You can find a picture of her and others they shot being hung upside down on the piazza lamp posts. It was a great justice that when Mussolini was captured, he was killed and hung upside down on a lamp post.

My Uncle had a good long life, but he always lived it with principles. He was brave, he was intelligent and he was the best of men. And now his ashes have returned to the place where he stood against fascism with his brothers. I wanted to share that because ordinary people are sometimes forgotten when we think of the war. But they are Heroes and together, British, Italian, French, Indian, West Indian, Canadian, American, Australian, they fought and risked their lives for right. I wanted to share my memory of my Uncle Irlando - the greatest of men.
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  • Big in Brasov
    Big in Brasov Posts: 743

    I am half Italian. My mothers maiden name was Smith and I grew up in London, but my dad was Italian and met my mother when she was on holiday and came over here to live when they married. We would go to Italy for a month every year and stay on my grandparents farm in a place called Forli. Mussolini was born in Predappio which is a province of Forli. Our Uncle Irlando (named after the Irish struggle against the British) spoiled us. He took us out and we just loved him more than I can express. As we got older we learned of his bravery and principles. He later became mayor of the Emelia Romangna Region of Italy and was head of Education and wrote published books on the subject.

    I have just returned to Italy where I scattered his ashes in the mountains were he was a partizan during the war. From the beginning of the war the Nazis were after him and they nearly caught him a few times- once when he was hiding in an attic whilst they were searching the house looking for him. Had they caught him, he would have been shot and hung upside down from a lamp post in the town centre. That is what the Nazi's did to women and even teenagers who opposed them. Irlando was a teenager on national service before Italy was split by the war. He was part of a troop and was made second in command. When it was clear that troop would become part of a fascist army, and when the commander was away, my uncle -as acting leader - still in his teens signed papers to dissolve the troop.

    He was on the run after that and became a partizan. He always cared about people and social justice. I recall in the 70s he fostered a young boy from Chile who's family were victims of the fascist regime there. There are many stories of the bravery of the partizans of which my uncle was one. In the cemetery in Forli there is a monument/grave to fallen partizans. One story was of a Nazi raid were thepartizans fleed. A young woman who was epileptic fitted. Knowing her husband wouldn't flee and seek to save her, she shot herself. You can find a picture of her and others they shot being hung upside down on the piazza lamp posts. It was a great justice that when Mussolini was captured, he was killed and hung upside down on a lamp post.

    My Uncle had a good long life, but he always lived it with principles. He was brave, he was intelligent and he was the best of men. And now his ashes have returned to the place where he stood against fascism with his brothers. I wanted to share that because ordinary people are sometimes forgotten when we think of the war. But they are Heroes and together, British, Italian, French, Indian, West Indian, Canadian, American, Australian, they fought and risked their lives for right. I wanted to share my memory of my Uncle Irlando - the greatest of men.

    Very moving, - thanks for sharing.

    RIP Irlando
  • Beardface
    Beardface Posts: 1,128
    Sounds like an amazing man. RIP.
  • creepyaddick
    creepyaddick Posts: 6,152
    Rest in peace Irlando, sincere condolences to you and your family too @MuttleyCAFC
  • MrOneLung
    MrOneLung Posts: 26,853
    Lovely post.
  • oohaahmortimer
    oohaahmortimer Posts: 34,145
    You always come across as a very fair minded individual Muttley, I’m sure there’s plenty of your uncles principles installed in you .

    RIP Uncle Irlando
  • Arsenetatters
    Arsenetatters Posts: 5,974
    RIP Irlando
  • Davo55
    Davo55 Posts: 7,836
    Wow. That is an amazing story @MuttleyCAFC and a great tribute to your uncle. What a brave man he was.
  • BowieAddick
    BowieAddick Posts: 1,192
    What an incredibly brave man and very moving story
    RIP Irlando
  • Henry Irving
    Henry Irving Posts: 85,221
    RIP

    I visited the museum of the Liberation when I was in Rome last month. Lots of stuff about the Partizans. Well, worth a visit.
  • se9addick
    se9addick Posts: 32,035
    Sounds like a top bloke, RIP Irlando.
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  • Greenie
    Greenie Posts: 9,172
    A member of the greatest generation, RIP Irlando.
  • Solidgone
    Solidgone Posts: 10,207
    Brave man indeed. RIP. Thank you for sharing.
  • lolwray
    lolwray Posts: 4,900
    what a lovely story ,a life well lived bless him RIP
  • Daarrzzetbum
    Daarrzzetbum Posts: 1,236
    What a life he lived RIP Irlando
  • bigstemarra
    bigstemarra Posts: 5,098
    What an incredible individual. You are right to be proud.

    RIP Irlando.
  • RIP
  • LenGlover
    LenGlover Posts: 31,651
    RIP Irlando.
  • thecat
    thecat Posts: 351
    Sounds like an incredible man, many thanks for sharing
  • bobmunro
    bobmunro Posts: 20,843
    He was no ordinary person - he was an extraordinary man, and as Greenie says part of the greatest generation.

    Your pride in him shines through, as it rightly should.

    RIP Irlando - a hero.
  • Starinnaddick
    Starinnaddick Posts: 4,342
    Thanks for sharing Muttley.
    RIP Irlando
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  • MuttleyCAFC
    MuttleyCAFC Posts: 47,728
    Thank you for your kind comments - they mean a lot.
  • iainment
    iainment Posts: 8,039

    I am half Italian. My mothers maiden name was Smith and I grew up in London, but my dad was Italian and met my mother when she was on holiday and came over here to live when they married. We would go to Italy for a month every year and stay on my grandparents farm in a place called Forli. Mussolini was born in Predappio which is a province of Forli. Our Uncle Irlando (named after the Irish struggle against the British) spoiled us. He took us out and we just loved him more than I can express. As we got older we learned of his bravery and principles. He later became mayor of the Emelia Romangna Region of Italy and was head of Education and wrote published books on the subject.

    I have just returned to Italy where I scattered his ashes in the mountains were he was a partizan during the war. From the beginning of the war the Nazis were after him and they nearly caught him a few times- once when he was hiding in an attic whilst they were searching the house looking for him. Had they caught him, he would have been shot and hung upside down from a lamp post in the town centre. That is what the Nazi's did to women and even teenagers who opposed them. Irlando was a teenager on national service before Italy was split by the war. He was part of a troop and was made second in command. When it was clear that troop would become part of a fascist army, and when the commander was away, my uncle -as acting leader - still in his teens signed papers to dissolve the troop.

    He was on the run after that and became a partizan. He always cared about people and social justice. I recall in the 70s he fostered a young boy from Chile who's family were victims of the fascist regime there. There are many stories of the bravery of the partizans of which my uncle was one. In the cemetery in Forli there is a monument/grave to fallen partizans. One story was of a Nazi raid were thepartizans fleed. A young woman who was epileptic fitted. Knowing her husband wouldn't flee and seek to save her, she shot herself. You can find a picture of her and others they shot being hung upside down on the piazza lamp posts. It was a great justice that when Mussolini was captured, he was killed and hung upside down on a lamp post.

    My Uncle had a good long life, but he always lived it with principles. He was brave, he was intelligent and he was the best of men. And now his ashes have returned to the place where he stood against fascism with his brothers. I wanted to share that because ordinary people are sometimes forgotten when we think of the war. But they are Heroes and together, British, Italian, French, Indian, West Indian, Canadian, American, Australian, they fought and risked their lives for right. I wanted to share my memory of my Uncle Irlando - the greatest of men.

    Sounds like a great man. The type I would like to be like but.....

    If I knew how on my phone I'd post a link to the Partisans song Bella Ciao.

    Maybe someone else could.

  • Fanny Fanackapan
    Fanny Fanackapan Posts: 18,737
    You must be so proud to call this very special man "Uncle".

    Sleep tight, Irlando.
  • smudge7946
    smudge7946 Posts: 4,131
    RIP Uncle Irlando.

    Did he ever say anything about his rather unusal name?
  • johnny73
    johnny73 Posts: 4,567
    RIP. Thanks for sharing.
  • LennyLowrent
    LennyLowrent Posts: 2,705
    RIP Irlando.
    Great life, inspiration to us all.
  • iainment
    iainment Posts: 8,039

    RIP Uncle Irlando.

    Did he ever say anything about his rather unusal name?

    It's in the original post. Named in honour of the Irish struggle against the British.
  • MuttleyCAFC
    MuttleyCAFC Posts: 47,728
    edited May 2018
    My Grandad was a bit of a revolutionary! My uncle loved Britain.
  • EdgeleyAddick
    EdgeleyAddick Posts: 939
    RIP Irlando. Sounds like a real hero. Sorry for your loss Muttley.
  • Stig
    Stig Posts: 29,024
    Great tribute to a great man. Well done Muttley and best wishes to all Uncle Irlando's family and friends.