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The Undateables

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  • Brilliant show, could be exploitative but they strike the right balance so well it's just lovely.
  • Clem_Snide
    Clem_Snide Posts: 11,739
    edited January 2015
    Daniel is becoming my hero.

    Michael is the polar opposite to Daniel. Although he has just had me in hysterics - straight to the dates face "oh well, plenty more fish in the sea for me. Farewell my friend"
  • cafc4life
    cafc4life Posts: 4,632
    Yeah agree great programme . Borders between making me crease and say aww bless haha
  • ValleyGary
    ValleyGary Posts: 37,982
    The King Charles Cavalier Spaniel bit is one of the best things I've seen in a long time.
  • Dizzle
    Dizzle Posts: 5,190
    I tell you what

    "Would you like a kiss with that" is my new line
  • smiffyboy
    smiffyboy Posts: 4,314
    Micheal after being told she just wants to be friends, oh well there's plenty more fish in the sea, cracked me up
  • brogib
    brogib Posts: 2,128
    Really like this programme too, I think it's sensitively done.
  • red_murph
    red_murph Posts: 2,460
    Just saw it on plus one. What a quality programme.

    At no stage does it take the mickey, they strike a wonderful balance. I just find myself laughing along as quite often the people on it say what everyone must be thinking on dates at some point or another.

    Looks like next week is a catch up show, should be good.
  • stackitsteve
    stackitsteve Posts: 12,103
    Tonight's was a catch up show too
  • Fiiiiiish
    Fiiiiiish Posts: 1,671
    "Your eyes are as brown as bark"....Mikey you chap.
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  • MrOneLung
    MrOneLung Posts: 26,857
    Are these women who are doing it for the fame and know it is on TV or have they genuinely seen the undateables profile online and gone on a genuine date?
  • cafcdave123
    cafcdave123 Posts: 11,491
    MrOneLung said:

    Are these women who are doing it for the fame and know it is on TV or have they genuinely seen the undateables profile online and gone on a genuine date?

    I think its a bit of a mix, there must be some that see it as a chance to get on TV and at the same time there must be some hat wouldn't be that heartless.
  • Swear at the squirrel......FUCK OFF.

    The Tourettes is crazy, some of the lines she came out with made me laugh so much. Peado in a Speedo was another.
  • The chap with tourettes from an earlier series has married the girl he met on the programme...

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2925535/Man-Tourette-s-Syndrome-marries-model-year-meeting-TV-s-Undateables.html

    Good on him!
  • Dizzle
    Dizzle Posts: 5,190
    channel 4 if you want cheering up from all this transfer disappointment
  • That was so lovely - the Tourettes guy has got a good one there, too.
  • WayneK
    WayneK Posts: 639

    Saw a trailer, that was enough for me. Yet another pointing and laughing programme. Disgusting.

    I don't often agree with you but I find this programme disturbing viewing.

  • Nothing like giving it a chance, eh? It's not like that at all - it doesn't hide away from their disabilities but shows them as individuals and tries to get their personalities across really well, in my opinion.

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  • Talal
    Talal Posts: 11,491
    WayneK said:

    Saw a trailer, that was enough for me. Yet another pointing and laughing programme. Disgusting.

    I don't often agree with you but I find this programme disturbing viewing.

    It doesn't mock them, as Neil says it highlights their personalities and shows the struggles they have to go through in a non patronising way. There have been some very likeable, endearing people featured, not to mention funny (in a laugh with them not at them way). Also shows some great family relationships, but if non of this appeals then it's probably best you don't watch.
  • Glovepup
    Glovepup Posts: 1,746
    Recently discovered this program myself after others have encouraged me to watch it. I was worried it would be making fools of these people and whilst I find some of what happens awkward I have become to love this program.

    This weeks catch up was fantastic.
  • I love the programme, I absolutely love daniel too. Brent and challis have a beautiful relationship. I don't know what's not to love. It's not mocking people at all, if anything it raises awareness about conditions and disabilities that society don't really know enough about, and the struggles they have finding life companions, something most of us take for granted.
  • hawksmoor
    hawksmoor Posts: 2,608
    edited February 2015
    I agree with Sadie. I too, as some may remember, have an autistic son, so I'm quite sensitive to the way TV programmes approach special needs topics, but I, for one, think this series is very nicely handled indeed. The catch-up where the sweet kid with Tourettes got married in Vegas, and the disabled lady revealed she was pregnant... man alive I must have had something in my eye watching that.
  • red_murph
    red_murph Posts: 2,460
    WayneK said:

    Saw a trailer, that was enough for me. Yet another pointing and laughing programme. Disgusting.

    I don't often agree with you but I find this programme disturbing viewing.

    Why?

    And how Algarve can say that without watching the programme itself is amazing.

    Completely agree with Sadie & Hawksmoor.

    Myself and the wife watch it with tears and laughter in equal measure, but never at the expense of the people involved.



  • soapy_jones
    soapy_jones Posts: 21,355
    Never watched it out of fear that the only conclusion that I would draw from it was that I should be on it...
  • Dazzler21
    Dazzler21 Posts: 51,344

    Never watched it out of fear that the only conclusion that I would draw from it was that I should be on it...

    probably right. :wink:
  • jdsd42
    jdsd42 Posts: 1,498
    Its a good show ....nice to know there is someone for everyone .....
  • Shrew
    Shrew Posts: 5,749
    cafc4life said:

    Yeah agree great programme . Borders between making me crease and say aww bless haha

    I direct theatre performances with a group of very talented disabled and learning disabled performers. We aim to create work which is powerful and sometimes hard hitting. We have been approached a few times from the makers of this programme wanting to invite some of our performers onto the show. They have always refused as individuals and we have refused as a company. Precisely as it has taken us a long time to gain audiences which do not ahh or go bless or cry but are taken on a powerful journey by our company and judged as any other theatre company would be.

    Programmes like this do exploit for the sake of entertainment. Not enough care goes into the messages that are put across and support for the actors lives.
  • Dazzler21
    Dazzler21 Posts: 51,344
    edited February 2015
    Shrew said:

    cafc4life said:

    Yeah agree great programme . Borders between making me crease and say aww bless haha

    I direct theatre performances with a group of very talented disabled and learning disabled performers. We aim to create work which is powerful and sometimes hard hitting. We have been approached a few times from the makers of this programme wanting to invite some of our performers onto the show. They have always refused as individuals and we have refused as a company. Precisely as it has taken us a long time to gain audiences which do not ahh or go bless or cry but are taken on a powerful journey by our company and judged as any other theatre company would be.

    Programmes like this do exploit for the sake of entertainment. Not enough care goes into the messages that are put across and support for the actors lives.
    I side with these two views as they more match my view on the programme...

    I love the programme, I absolutely love daniel too. Brent and challis have a beautiful relationship. I don't know what's not to love. It's not mocking people at all, if anything it raises awareness about conditions and disabilities that society don't really know enough about, and the struggles they have finding life companions, something most of us take for granted.

    hawksmoor said:

    I agree with Sadie. I too, as some may remember, have an autistic son, so I'm quite sensitive to the way TV programmes approach special needs topics, but I, for one, think this series is very nicely handled indeed. The catch-up where the sweet kid with Tourettes got married in Vegas, and the disabled lady revealed she was pregnant... man alive I must have had something in my eye watching that.


    They are exploiting for entertainment yes, but as @hawksmoor and @sadiejane1981 say it's not mocking, it does raise awareness and it does depict each of the individual's personalities, rather than shy away from them as people completely.

    Not saying you're wrong, you do have more experience of interacting with those with learning difficulties than me, but I don't feel the show is much different to when you see someone go on their first date when they don't have any learning difficulties.

    Not knowing what to say, how to act, striving to be liked, avoiding being too forward, missing all her signs etc...