A mate of mine didnt speak to me for nearly two years after i smashed is sister. And he's a palace fan.
I have (or should I say, had) a mate whom I was very pally with. CAFC supporter who is known to many who go away from home as he didn't miss a game, home or away for 5 years. We used to play golf together, every weekend, sometimes both sat & sundays - always before a game (home & away) and many times got up at daft o'clock to play before an away game somewhere.....
One day he suddenly decided to give up playing golf.........just like that. From playing every weekend, in all weathers to zilch, Nothing, Nada.We still went to away games but for me it started losing its interest now golf wasn't part of the package. He then started a crusade to walk round the coastline of Britain, bit by bit. - started at Charlton and went east...........via the Medway towns, the kent coast, onto sussex, dorset, devon etc - doing 15/20 miles a day during blank football weekends, summer holidays etc. After 4 or 5 years of this he got round to Wales. One year I helped him by driving him down there and palying some golf in Swansea & Cardiff whislt he did S.Wales and drove him back (he doesn't drive) - a few weeks later we played Tranmere and on the way home we diverted to Tenby so that I could drop him off & he could continue his walk - i drove home that night getting in around 3am sunday morning.
so, where is this all going, you may ask.
Well, we had a falling out over something trivial - he thought I had let him down as I said I would pick him up from work & take him to see his parents who were in hospital, but I couldn't find where he was waiting and seeing as just the day before he had thrown his mobile into the Thames in a fit of pique I couldn't contact him to say I couldn't wait any longer and had to get off home.
That was 2 years ago and we havn't spoken since. I beleive he still goes home & away but I haven't seen him to say hello - he has resisted all attempts at reconcilation and so things are as they are.
I'm a bit like Saga, I'm not the nicest of people so it is inevitable that friendships dont last that long. I dont mind liars, some are very amusing...but a lie told about me or mine...sorry, but thats a point of no return and I wont be losing any sleep over you.
Yer my mate fat micky Millwall fan. Known him over 30 years ,every time he gets pissed rings me up to spout off some drivel about the spanners. Then puts his millwall mate on who then tells me` how many charlton fans they will carve up down the valley.. Pair of C**TS together..
I had the biggest twat of all as a mate who I've now disowned.
I got him a season ticket next to me for 2 season's running (which he did pay for) at Charlton which we both used to really enjoy going together. Then halfway through the second season he starts saying he's busy on a Saturday from 12-4ish. Which I first thought was fine and he'd just miss the occasional game.
But this continued and at School I started inquiring to what he was up to and he told me to f off. Anyway from some digging I found that he'd joined a church completely out of the blue (nothing against religion) and that the majority of people who went their supported Palarse. So instead of going to Charlton he'd been going to Palarse games with people who he barely knew instead of seeing out his season ticket with me. All of this right behind my back without telling me.
At that point i was seriously pee'd off as every game I had to find out if he was going or not and we gave him a lift week in, week out when he used to go and he just make up shite excuses instead of telling the truth. Then at School he started criticising things that went against what was in the bible to everybody as if we were criminals. At this point I'd had enough and he'd been speaking to me less and less anyway so I said enough is enough and we're no longer friends. He was just hanging out with religious fanatics at the end of school and lucky we went to different 6th forms because he turned into a right c**t.
I disowned a mate because he said he was going to vote BNP back in the late 90s. Just couldn't stomach some of the shit he was starting to spout, despite him knowing how much it pissed me off. He got quite into the far right scene but went off it a bit after first he got a proper shoeing by some anti-fascists and secondly his missus left him cos he turned into a nazi dickhead. How I smiled at his demise.
But this continued and at School I started inquiring to what he was up to and he told me to f off. Anyway from some digging I found that he'd joined a church completely out of the blue (nothing against religion) and that the majority of people who went their supported Palarse. So instead of going to Charlton he'd being to Palarse games with people who he barely knew instead of seeing out his season ticket with me. All of this right behind my back without telling me.
Proof that the Palace ultras are extras from Sister Act.
The 7-1 defeat at Burnley in 1983 was friendship termination for me and a pal - my Dad had taken us, my pal wasnt a Charlton fan but was my best friend, but he took the p*** so much on the way home that that was it - friendship termination. The game was noteworthy for two Charlton sending offs and Alan Simonsen missing a couple of one on ones with their keeper with the score 0-0.
For me I went to the England Trinidad game at Germany world cup. Hired a one way car with my mate in Munich and drive to Nuremberg with plans to get the train home late on. After the game, lost my mate in the old town and never made the train.
He got the train to Munich, I got a cab next morning.
Have never seen or spoke to him since. He saw his arse. Odd one.
Had a mate who decided it was ok to sleep with an ex of mine, even though he was mates when both of us were together. he then did it to another mates ex, literally a day after they had split.
I think that is a golden rule that he broke, i'm not a violent man but was temped after that.
Had a mate who decided it was ok to sleep with an ex of mine, even though he was mates when both of us were together. he then did it to another mates ex, literally a day after they had split.
I think that is a golden rule that he broke, i'm not a violent man but was temped after that.
He deserved a double slap from you and your mate.
Had a mate who showed an interest in my ex GF, had to warn him off.
My mate few years back was 21 and my sister was 15/16 and he started seeing her, I noticed they were spending a lot of time together and I warned him away but he did not listen. So like the stubborn git I am I did not speak to either for a year!
I went out with my mate's ex-girlfriend. But I did it the right way. I asked him first. 12 years later we are still mates. I was his best man. It's about trust.
Found on Facebook an old army mate i went through a he'll of a lot with after 20 years. He turned into a proper racist c**t and moved to Australia to get away from all the "foreigners". He couldn't see any irony in that move. Blanked him since.
My mate few years back was 21 and my sister was 15/16 and he started seeing her, I noticed they were spending a lot of time together and I warned him away but he did not listen. So like the stubborn git I am I did not speak to either for a year!
Sounds like a cue for a song at the next home game Glovepup 'Speechless' by Lady GaGa, out of interest is your exmate now your brother in law?
Surely the term 'ex' girlfriend means you lose the right to have the hump if someone else fires one up her.
I understand it may not be totally palatable but I say fair game. As long as they were not making the beast with two backs during your relationship then that is fine in my book. Move on
My mate few years back was 21 and my sister was 15/16 and he started seeing her, I noticed they were spending a lot of time together and I warned him away but he did not listen. So like the stubborn git I am I did not speak to either for a year!
Sounds like a cue for a song at the next home game Glovepup 'Speechless' by Lady GaGa, out of interest is your exmate now your brother in law?
Nah mate, they dated for about 3 years. Our friendship never been quite the same as it once was though.
Question for those of you who'd disown a mate for going after one of your exes - how would you react if a mate said to you that you and their recent ex were well suited, and they wouldn't mind if you went for it with them? Would you still think getting involved with a mate's ex wasn't on?
Question for those of you who'd disown a mate for going after one of your exes - how would you react if a mate said to you that you and their recent ex were well suited, and they wouldn't mind if you went for it with them? Would you still think getting involved with a mate's ex wasn't on?
It's a bit different than just jumping in to bed with a mates ex; in this case you've been given permission and encouraged to give it a smash. Not comparable at all.
Question for those of you who'd disown a mate for going after one of your exes - how would you react if a mate said to you that you and their recent ex were well suited, and they wouldn't mind if you went for it with them? Would you still think getting involved with a mate's ex wasn't on?
Still wouldn't do it. Mates exes are completely out of bounds and against the bro code. Would think about the fact my mate had already pitched his tent there as well. Would put me off. There is also a reason that they are your mates ex. Considering you usually have a lot in common with your mate, there would be something similar in your own relationship that would mean it would fail.
Question for those of you who'd disown a mate for going after one of your exes - how would you react if a mate said to you that you and their recent ex were well suited, and they wouldn't mind if you went for it with them? Would you still think getting involved with a mate's ex wasn't on?
Still wouldn't do it. Mates exes are completely out of bounds and against the bro code. Would think about the fact my mate had already pitched his tent there as well. Would put me off. There is also a reason that they are your mates ex. Considering you usually have a lot in common with your mate, there would be something similar in your own relationship that would mean it would fail.
A mate of mine didnt speak to me for nearly two years after i smashed is sister. And he's a palace fan.
I have (or should I say, had) a mate whom I was very pally with. CAFC supporter who is known to many who go away from home as he didn't miss a game, home or away for 5 years. We used to play golf together, every weekend, sometimes both sat & sundays - always before a game (home & away) and many times got up at daft o'clock to play before an away game somewhere.....
One day he suddenly decided to give up playing golf.........just like that. From playing every weekend, in all weathers to zilch, Nothing, Nada.We still went to away games but for me it started losing its interest now golf wasn't part of the package. He then started a crusade to walk round the coastline of Britain, bit by bit. - started at Charlton and went east...........via the Medway towns, the kent coast, onto sussex, dorset, devon etc - doing 15/20 miles a day during blank football weekends, summer holidays etc. After 4 or 5 years of this he got round to Wales. One year I helped him by driving him down there and palying some golf in Swansea & Cardiff whislt he did S.Wales and drove him back (he doesn't drive) - a few weeks later we played Tranmere and on the way home we diverted to Tenby so that I could drop him off & he could continue his walk - i drove home that night getting in around 3am sunday morning.
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I got him a season ticket next to me for 2 season's running (which he did pay for) at Charlton which we both used to really enjoy going together. Then halfway through the second season he starts saying he's busy on a Saturday from 12-4ish. Which I first thought was fine and he'd just miss the occasional game.
But this continued and at School I started inquiring to what he was up to and he told me to f off. Anyway from some digging I found that he'd joined a church completely out of the blue (nothing against religion) and that the majority of people who went their supported Palarse. So instead of going to Charlton he'd been going to Palarse games with people who he barely knew instead of seeing out his season ticket with me. All of this right behind my back without telling me.
At that point i was seriously pee'd off as every game I had to find out if he was going or not and we gave him a lift week in, week out when he used to go and he just make up shite excuses instead of telling the truth. Then at School he started criticising things that went against what was in the bible to everybody as if we were criminals. At this point I'd had enough and he'd been speaking to me less and less anyway so I said enough is enough and we're no longer friends. He was just hanging out with religious fanatics at the end of school and lucky we went to different 6th forms because he turned into a right c**t.
He got quite into the far right scene but went off it a bit after first he got a proper shoeing by some anti-fascists and secondly his missus left him cos he turned into a nazi dickhead.
How I smiled at his demise.
At a party he tried it on with my now wife and she had to slap him and force her way out of a room
He wernt even drinking as he had a long drive in the morning
His missus went nutts after my missus told me what happend
She was screaming at him saying that he had done it again
I let it go that night as his missus was giving him enough shit for 10 men
But a week later he continually kept walking into my fists, knee and head
Like a bafoon
We got on the beer one night and he told me how he had a kid back in New Zealand who he didn't pay child support to, and was quite proud of the fact.
He actually told me that he only moved to Oz to avoid paying any maintenance or support to the child - and seemed to think this was some great laugh.
Didn't speak to him again after that, despicable behaviour in my book.
For me I went to the England Trinidad game at Germany world cup. Hired a one way car with my mate in Munich and drive to Nuremberg with plans to get the train home late on. After the game, lost my mate in the old town and never made the train.
He got the train to Munich, I got a cab next morning.
Have never seen or spoke to him since. He saw his arse. Odd one.
I think that is a golden rule that he broke, i'm not a violent man but was temped after that.
Had a mate who showed an interest in my ex GF, had to warn him off.
You just don't do it to a mate.
I understand it may not be totally palatable but I say fair game. As long as they were not making the beast with two backs during your relationship then that is fine in my book. Move on
What's his name Forrest Gump?