A great thankyou to all the lifers that wished me and my partner well after the loss of our daughter (Liv), born on saturday (See - Suicide thread). I'm taking things one day at a time and last nights result cheered me up although i have to be honest, it was my dad that let me know the score after the game, as for the first time in a very long time, i wasn't at the game, following the commentary, or listening in to reports.
Sometimes life is crap and othertimesits worse, but i can whole heartedly say, that despite the pationate disagreements on here, or which there are many, i am proud to be a part of a bunch of fans that dont just genuinely care about their club, they care about each other. i'm proud to be a Lifer.
Again thanks to all from us both.
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there are no words
but stay strong for each other
God bless
My son had major heart surgery at 14 days old back in 1996 when the survival rate was about 70%. Fortunately for us he came through and is fine now, but even now I look at him and thank my lucky stars and the surgeon for what they did, and what the alternative outcome might have been, which brings me out in a cold sweat.
I feel desperately for you, and hope that time and the support of your friends and family will pull you through. I hope you find it binds you closer together, and that will be your poor daughter's legacy to you all. Good luck.
Thoughts are with you and your family
Terrible thing to happen. Keep strong and take care of each other.
BC
Echo everyone's thoughts & good wishes for the future .
I was unfortunate to suffer 3 miscarriages followed by a live birth at 24 weeks, 38 years ago . At this time, it was far too early for my baby to survive and I never got to see her.
At this time, I felt I was destined to be childless but nevertheless, with some surgical intervention ( and 25 weeks' bed rest) our son , Tim was born followed 3 years later by Laura.
What I'm, probably unsuccessfully, trying to say is that I'm sure you must feel as though your world has collapsed around you and you will struggle to recover. But time is a great healer especially when you have the support of each other and good people around you. As bc_addick said, be strong, and in time you will see the sun again , albeit forever having your dear little daughter in your hearts.
xx