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Valley, Floyd Road, My Only Desire by Charlie Connelly

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edited March 2011 in General Charlton
Written by Charlie Connelly (http://www.charlieconnelly.com/news/index.php/2011/03/19/valley-floyd-road-my-only-desire/)

As I write these words Charlton Athletic are 0-2 down at Dagenham & Redbridge in League One.

Ten years ago – almost to the day - we played Dagenham & Redbridge in the third round of the FA Cup. It was the season I was writing my book Many Miles: A Season In The Life of Charlton Athletic. We were in the top half of the Premiership, beating the likes of Chelsea and Arsenal. Dagenham & Redbridge were way down the divisions in the Conference; a semi-professional league. Playing us in the cup was arguably the biggest day in their history and they should have beaten us, truth be told. It took an equaliser – a deflected shot by John Salako at that – in the sixth minute of injury time to earn us a draw that we didn’t really deserve. It was almost the classic fairytale football story of David slaying Goliath but football can be cruelly parsimonious when it comes to fairytales.

Ours certainly came to an end, although it did last for the best part of a decade. Even so nobody, not even the most gloating Palace or Millwall fan, expected that fairytale to implode in quite the way it has since we lost our Premiship place in 2007.

Today over there in east London we are the diddy team. Dagenham have come up steadily through the divisions as we’ve lurched haplessly down them. By the sound of things, we should be a lot more than two goals behind and today’s defeat, for defeat is inevitable, puts us nearer relegation to the fourth division than the play-off places.

This is certainly the worst Charlton team of my thirty-plus years as a fan and I’ve seen some rotten teams in my time. It’s conceivably the worst Charlton team ever to take the field.

It’s grim being a Charlton supporter these days, really, really grim. There’s anger and fury among the supporters, most of it entirely justified and certainly understandable. The hope of club legend Chris Powell’s appointment as manager has been extinguished, certainly as far as this season goes. There are players out there today who aren’t good enough to wear the shirt and care even less.

Charlton have always been pretty good at dashing hopes, but lately they really have surpassed themselves. I don’t feel angry though. I feel empty, almost nauseous and desperately sad.

But somehow it just makes me love that club even more.

As an expat these last three years or so I’ve missed a few things about living in England, but most of all I’ve missed Charlton Athletic. That club is woven more into my emotional history than anything else. Catching the 75 to the top of Charlton Church Lane for a midweek game as a kid and seeing the glow of the floodlights in the sky before walking down the hill to the ground breathless with excitement and utterly lost in the magic of it all even though we were only playing, say, Cambridge United.

Going to the ‘last’ game at the Valley in 1985 with my uncle. The celebrations of winning the First Division fifteen years later being marred by the news that that same uncle had died that afternoon. My programme from that match being in his hand in his coffin and my Charlton scarf being on top of it as it was lowered into his grave.

The day I spent my whole week’s student allowance travelling down to London on the train to see a midweek game against Tranmere Rovers when we called Upton Park ‘home’ because it looked like we might make the play-offs only to see a hope-crushing 0-1 defeat. Doing the same for the first game back at The Valley in December 1992 but not having a ticket and watching the half of the pitch visible from the garages at Charlton Heights overlooking the ground.

And best of all, that incredible afternoon at Wembley in 1998 when after a 4-4 draw we overcame Sunderland 7-6 on penalties to win promotion to the Premiership. I’ll never forget standing on my seat as the players celebrated and being totally unable to take in the enormity of what that team had achieved, the enormity of what lay ahead. Not only that, for once, that day, just once, Charlton Athletic didn’t shatter my hopes and destroy my dreams. For once they even exceeded them.

As I write this sentence I learn that we’ve lost 1-2 at Dagenham, our seventh defeat in eight games. We’re nine points away from the relegation zone to the fourth division and I’m sad, nauseous and empty. It’s the same feeling I had in 1984 when Newsroom South-East announced that the club had gone into liquidation and the same feeling as when I turned to look at The Valley for what appeared to be the last time after the Stoke game in 1985. We bounced back from both those calamitous events and we’ll bounce back from this.

How high we’ll bounce, who knows. But I know one thing: I love Charlton Athletic to a ridiculous extent. The Covered End behind the north goal at The Valley has been the only constant place in my life. Even though I live in another country now, even though we left The Valley for seven long years, even though it’s officially the North Stand and unrecognisable from when I first started going, there was and is the Covered End. I’ve moved houses, even countries; friends and girlfriends have come and gone, yet Charlton Athletic has always been there, The Valley has always been there and the Covered End has always been there.

I love my football team, even though they’ve always let me down and even though the current team is absolute shit. I’ve too much emotional investment, historic and current, in that club for it ever to be any other way.

Now, for crying out loud, come on you reds

Comments

  • Great article. sums it up perfectly for me.
  • ha ha like it

    i hate em so much for being the pathetic joke of a club that we have become

    but love em more!
  • Great article mate. Just makes it even more sad to realise how many of these clowns who have worn the shirt in the last 3 or 4 years really aren't fit to do so.

    How about a new book based on this season "No smiles: A Season In The Life of Charlton Athletic 2010/11"
  • A very eloquent piece, totally sums it up for us long suffering fans. Someone must have broken one big Fooken mirror at The Valley in 2006.
  • [quote][cite]Posted By: WSS[/cite]But I know one thing: I love Charlton Athletic to a ridiculous extent. The Covered End behind the north goal at The Valley has been the only constant place in my life. Even though I live in another country now, even though we left The Valley for seven long years, even though it’s officially the North Stand and unrecognisable from when I first started going, there was and is the Covered End. I’ve moved houses, even countries; friends and girlfriends have come and gone, yet Charlton Athletic has always been there, The Valley has always been there and the Covered End has always been there.

    I love my football team, even though they’ve always let me down and even though the current team is absolute shit. I’ve too much emotional investment, historic and current, in that club for it ever to be any other way.[/quote]

    I'm sure football fans up and down the country can relate to this whoever they support. It is so true.
    Since 1965 I have followed this lot, and they are the only consistent thing in my life ( apart from my Mum) . They are always there.
    Great article
  • Great article. My first game was in 1996 (aged 6) I believe against Oxford United. Remember nothing about the game apart from my mum saying someone one of the players had a nice arse! Weird conversation with a 6 year old but never mind! I got a season ticket in 1998 the season we was in the Prem. After a crap season we got relegated and being a pissesd off 8 year old I told my dad not to renew. I am ashamed at that! Next season (our championship season) my dad bought me a ticket for nearly every home game as I saw us gain promotion back to the premiership! I was lucky enough to get a season ticket again that season (2000/1) and have had one ever since. I go to every home game and as many away games I can afford and spare the time. Yes I'm pissed off beyond belief about yesterday and about the last few years but this is my club and I would support them if they were in the conference south or lower! I haven't seen as many highs and lows as most of you but I've seen enough. We will get through this. It might take another 10 years but who cares? What else are we going to do if we are not down the valley moaning our arses off? Support Millwall? Will I f**k..
  • A very nice slice of football fandom laid bare!
  • Says it all really. Excellent piece of writing.
  • [cite]Posted By: WSS[/cite]I love my football team, even though they’ve always let me down and even though the current team is absolute shit. I’ve too much emotional investment, historic and current, in that club for it ever to be any other way.

    Excellent article, loved the quote above especially, well done Charlie.......
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  • Can totally relate to the article. From the age of four when my Dad sat me on the wall at the top of the East Terrace to now - 48 years later - Charlton have been a major part of my life. Got my first season ticket in 1974, and had one every year since. Seen us play at 112 different grounds. And was there yesterday to witness the latest pile of crap. The club have provided me with some incredible highs and memories. But yesterday has to be one of the lowest points. But like many others, I'll be there on Tuesday and I'll have a season ticket for next season. Of course it's painful right now. But that's because we care.
  • [cite]Posted By: ken from bexley[/cite]
    [cite]Posted By: WSS[/cite]I love my football team, even though they’ve always let me down and even though the current team is absolute shit. I’ve too much emotional investment, historic and current, in that club for it ever to be any other way.

    Excellent article, loved the quote above especially, well done Charlie.......

    This does it for me.

    We are what we are and we are where we are.

    Regardless I support Charlton not the division they are in. Just Chartlon- MY club.

    LLLBH
  • [cite]Posted By: ken from bexley[/cite]
    [cite]Posted By: WSS[/cite]I love my football team, even though they’ve always let me down and even though the current team is absolute shit. I’ve too much emotional investment, historic and current, in that club for it ever to be any other way.

    Excellent article, loved the quote above especially, well done Charlie.......

    This does it for me.

    We are what we are and we are where we are.

    Regardless I support Charlton not the division they are in. Just Chartlon- MY club.

    LLLBH
  • Is that our current form at the bottom Henry?! (Lost, Lost, Lost, Beaten, Hopeless)

    Great article Charlie. Those same investments of time & emotion are probably what keep a lot of us from turning away from football & it's overpaid tarts altogether, but of course especially our own frustrating but very special club.
  • It should be sent to the club and read out to the players.


    De Canio said he signed for us after Curbs gave him a video of back to the Valley. Maybe this rubbish needs to understand where we have come from.


    Jesus------De Canio, seems like a whole life time ago that PDC was playing for us. I dont ever think i will see the likes of his class in a CAFC shirt again------sad.
  • Ive just read that and Im in tears.I care about and love our club as much.I first went as a six year old in 1973,stood with my Dad in the East Terrace and have loved the place ever since.Ive ridden with the highs and lows and believe that supporting Charlton has made me a better and stronger person,being able to take the highs and lows unlike some of the big clubs "plastic" supporters.Iam now many miles away from SE London and have only managed to get to the Carlisle away game this season, where I took my four year old son to his first game ever,he loved it.I am also devastated by the current run of form but we have to stand by the club,I worked on Charlton station on the day of the 2nd and "last" games in 85 and saw and felt the raw emotion on those days.As people have said that post must be given to those wasters that are not trying and we need to get the passion back.God we have come back from disaster almost so often we will come back.I didn't realise how much charlton has as a constant in my life now that my parents have passed away and wives have come and gone.We will pull through!
  • brought a tear to my eye, fantastic article.
  • Great Article.

    I'm an expat in New Zealand which is about as far as you can get from the valley and still be on the planet. So I don't get to see them (or even hear them) play as much as I like.

    I was back in the UK in Nov 09 (I'd gone back for my 40th) and I managed to get to see us thump MK Dons 5 - 1. Those who were there may remember that they, against the run of play, scored first and my thoughts were s**t I've travelled half way round the world to watch them loose again! Then we equalised, and scored again. We were wining! "Valley, Floyd Road, My Only Desire" rang round the ground and the the crowd started to get behind the team. "We want three, we want three" rang out and the team delivered then "we want four, we want four" and a forth went in and a fith. Some optomistic fans (I was one) shouted "we want six, we want six!" but that wasn't to be and the final wistle went. I didn't want to leave the ground but I was euphoric as a walked to the car, drove down the A2 home and got a balti for dinner. Whithout a doubt (although I'll never admit this to my mum or wife) the best day of my trip by along way. In fact the best day of any of my trips back to Blighty, since I left in '94!

    I long to be at the Valley and see us play like that again. Instead when I wake up on Sunday mornings, grab my phone, take a deep breath and check the result. That's normally followed by some expletive as I contemplate our drift down the table. My wife doesn't need to ask, she knows and leaves me alone.

    Still, I wear my Charlton beenie out round town, I don't care that we lost; that we're heading south; that for a few weeks this season (and last, come to think about it) I thought it was going to be a quick bounce back to the Championship and then to the Premiership where once again I can watch a full game on TV here in NZ. I'm an Addick and that's not going to change.

    "We want six, we want six!"
  • What a fantastic article - it oozes emotion and it is extremely moving.

    I salute your indominitable spirit, Sir. An example to us all.
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    Gooner Hater , i remember Di Canio warming up before the preseason game at Welling , i have never before seen a Charlton player doing the tricks he could do , i can still remember it like it was yesterday, it was a privilege to be there.
  • A great post......how I wish that the current squad would read this thread (and many others on this site) so they can realise that this club means so much to so many people across this planet and that their inept displays of late are just not acceptable. If they dont want to play for us, then do the decent thing, tear up your contracts walk away (without monetary compensation) and lets have players here that are proud to wear the Red shirt!
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