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War Cemetaries in France - Ever been and why ?

My father in law lost his uncle at The Somme in 1916. He always wanted to visit and we went about 7 years ago. Last year I did some family history digging and discovered that my great great uncle was killed near Ypres and so I visited last spring. All of the cemetaries are perfectly maintained and even if you are not visiting a relative I defy anyone not to be moved by reading the names and ages of the lads buried there. I will visit again some time. I think all school children should have the chance to visit. Incidently, in Poland all school kids make the visit to Achwitz as part of their studies.
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  • [cite]Posted By: ShootersHillGuru[/cite]My father in law lost his uncle at The Somme in 1916. He always wanted to visit and we went about 7 years ago. Last year I did some family history digging and discovered that my great great uncle was killed near Ypres and so I visited last spring. All of the cemetaries are perfectly maintained and even if you are not visiting a relative I defy anyone not to be moved by reading the names and ages of the lads buried there. I will visit again some time. I think all school children should have the chance to visit. Incidently, in Poland all school kids make the visit to Achwitz as part of their studies.

    Been to quite a few. Always moving.

    Went over with Addickted and a few other Charlton fans to Belguim last year and did a bit of a tour.

    Also went to Anzio while in Rome a few years back.
  • It's something I've alway's wanted to do, and will do as soon as possible.
  • I visited Thiepval Memorial to the Lost in the summer, and many other World War 1 cemeteries, also took in a World War 2 german cemetery, one if the most moving days I have had, I am not ashamed to say I shed a few tears on that, day, we were staying with friends in the area, and took 3 11 year olds, who were equally moved, I plan to visit Montecchio Cemetery in August next year to visit my Uncles grave from 1944, again I will take my son, I think as many kids as possible should visit these places.
  • I've always wanted to go over there. Not entirely sure why though. I hope it's not just a morbid fascination and more that I just want to go and pay my respects, but honestly don't know what the answer is.

    Bit of a difficult one to raise with the missus though. "Where are we going on holiday this year then?" "Oh, I quite fancy northern France to look around a battlefield". I wouldn't be very popular.

    The only alternative is to go with a couple of mates, but equally she would probably think I was just going on a jolly - which I guess is maybe what it would turn into.
  • Off it....I was worried about my motives for visiting Auchwitz. I needn`t have. I did a 5 hour tour with some mates of Aucwitz I and Auchwitz II - Birkineau and we were all too shocked and moved even to speak to one another. Again its a place that everyone should try to visit. Easy now. Krakow is just up the road and cheap flights make it a great place to stay. One of nicest cities I have visited.
  • edited November 2008
    I've been to the battlefields and cemeteries near Ypres (Belgium) as my Great Uncle died there on 15 November 1914. His name is one of the 54,000 odd on the Menin Gate as he was missing.

    It was one of the most moving experiences of my life and I firmly believe that every politician or prospective politician should be compelled to visit the battlefields as a condition of being allowed to stand.

    We may then just possibly become rather more circumspect about getting involved in the criminal waste of human life which is war.

    I realise that war is sometimes unavoidable but there are also instances where it is avoidable in my opinion.
  • Well said Len.
  • I've been through Flanders many times, but I've never stopped. I have though been to Kanchanaburi cemetary, in western Thailand where quite a few of the Australian, Dutch, British soldiers who died during the building of the death railway are buried. Just as the WWI cemeteries are it is immaculately maintained.
  • We were taken to a war graveyard during a school trip to Northern France. Even though that was 25 years ago, it made a deep and lasting impression. Just the sheer number of graves.

    More recently I visit the Allied graveyard at the "Death Railway" near the bridge over the River Kwai. I had some very personal reasons for wanting to go there. Again it was a tremendously moving experience.
  • Never been, but always wanted to - family not interested. Hopefully, when the boys are older I'll pursuade them. Been to the American Cemetery at Cambridge though. That is very moving.

    As I kid I visited East Germany on a school trip and went to Sachsenhausen whilst I was there. It's one of two things I've done in life that I think should be compulsory for all as a reminder of how good our lives are compared to those of some poor souls. The other is going down a coal mine.
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  • Len

    I am putting my great grandfathers military cross and the details from which his act of galantry ment it was bestowed to him in a musuem in Watham Abbey for a first world war exhibition he got it for a battle that happened near Ypres.

    i researched as much as i could in to him and came up trumps with a few things but i have drawn a blank on a piture of him in service (wont stop tryin)

    they do fantastic stuff there at the old royal gunpowder mills the exhibitions of the great war and the 2nd world war left me exteemly humble and thankfull i suggest to anyone it is well worth a visit

    it is very hands on lots for youngsters to do and extreemly well put together
  • no but my son is going on a school trip there next october. Hoping to blag along as a helper
  • Been to Ypres a couple of times - My Grandfather was regular army before WW1 started and so spent much of 1914 - 18 in and around that place. Got gassed in 1917 I believe and won Military Cross. It is very moving often seeing two world wars dead close by.
  • How proud pickwick did it make you to learn what they did i look at his medal everyday and think shit i am a lucky lucky man to not have to do what you did
  • Went to France a couple of years ago to a place near Soissons, about a 3 hour drive from Calais, an hour from Paris. Wasn't a deliberate trip to visit war cemeteries but it really struck me that we were passing a different cemetery so often and there were signposts for many others. Will visit Flanders and Normandy one day. Should be a part of every schools curriculum in my opinion - to help the kids learn but also to try and stop it ever happening again.
  • [cite]Posted By: Medders[/cite]. Should be a part of every schools curriculum in my opinion - to help the kids learn but also to try and stop it ever happening again.

    think it is mate
  • edited November 2008
    Sorry mate, meant that it should be part of their education that they all visit the war cemeteries....
  • Jeez, what's going on here - Ledge and Medders being civil to each other?

    That's the spirit chaps, nice one.
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    edited November 2008
    My Grandads Brother was killed on the Somme 7th July 1916 and is commemorated at Thiepval, along with 73,000 others. I was the first member of my family to research Tom's military service and visit his place of death. This all started for me when I was about 6 or 7 when I asked my Grandad why his middle name was Somme...he told me his brother was killed there 2 years before his birth (aged just 17) and that his Mum wore black every day until she passed away. I collated all of the records about Tom's regiment, visited Thiepval, photographed and documented everything including the photograph of the column with his name (very spooky seeing T Hastings inscribed on column C16) and presented it to my Grandad.....it was very sad to see him cry. Since then I have visited most of the Battlefields and war mueseums in France Holland and Belgium along with the memorial for the fallen soldier in Melbourne. Im happy to say that on many of my visits, I saw many parties of Children from Schools from all over Europe....thats how it should be...
  • [cite]Posted By: nth london addick[/cite]Len

    I am putting my great grandfathers military cross and the details from which his act of galantry ment it was bestowed to him in a musuem in Watham Abbey for a first world war exhibition he got it for a battle that happened near Ypres.

    i researched as much as i could in to him and came up trumps with a few things but i have drawn a blank on a piture of him in service (wont stop tryin)

    they do fantastic stuff there at the old royal gunpowder mills the exhibitions of the great war and the 2nd world war left me exteemly humble and thankfull i suggest to anyone it is well worth a visit

    it is very hands on lots for youngsters to do and extreemly well put together

    Thats really good to hear NLA. My Grandfather was injured at Passendaele and also fought on the Somme.

    They called it "The war to end all wars", yet within a generation, it all started up again. We should be immensely proud of those who fought for our country, we should never forget those who died, but we should remain ever vigilant against the scourge of nationalism which, especially in the second world war, led to the deaths of 50 million people.
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  • [cite]Posted By: nth london addick[/cite]Len
    i researched as much as i could in to him and came up trumps with a few things but i have drawn a blank on a piture of him in service (wont stop tryin)
    NLA, do you know what regiment he was in? They may have a picture in the regimental archives.
  • Did the Normandy beaches about 18 years ago.

    Anyone who goes must visit the Memorial for peace at Caen. There is a film which uses modern day images of Omaha beach and shots from The Longest Day cut together. It was one of the most powerful images I have ever seen.

    Outside the museum you can see the remains of the old town and how battered they were.

    Also went to Arromanches and Point du Hoc.

    When my youngest reaches or nears double figures I am going to take both my boys to see the beaches and hopefully it will make them appreciate the sacrifices that were made by so many young men in both the Great and Second World Wars.
  • [cite]Posted By: Off_it[/cite]Jeez, what's going on here - Ledge and Medders being civil to each other?

    That's the spirit chaps, nice one.

    Normal service will be resumed tomorrow mate ;-)
  • NLA, yes, it makes me very proud - to have served through that for four years been gassed and then gone back.

    Never seen the medal though it is with an uncle in Tasmania allegedley - families eh.....My Grandfather was in the Surrey Rifles - and he died the year before I was born.
  • edited November 2008
    Aliwibble, yeah we went down that route our last chance is a small museum in luton and one in hertford,

    the strangest thing is his meddals got sent from Enfield post office (where i live now after coming from sth london) and his family orriganted from Totteham and ended up in hoddeson which is literally 5 mins up the road from me, when i took the medal to the Gunpowder mills museum the fella pointed me in the direction of those 2 museums as alot of the stuff in the national archives got destroyed in the blitz,

    His description in his army papers that we have he sounds more like my son that anyone else in our family with his hair and eye colour

    His story is truely remarkable as he got injured with shrapnel and got sent home, went back and was involved in the Battle of Cambai one of the first succesful battles where tanks and small arms were used together took charge of his pals when their commanding officer got killed and took a german machine gun post whilst heavily out numbered, he was one of a few non officers to recieve the the MC, he got mustard gassed and more shrapnel got sent home again only to go back for a third time when he got so injured he couldnt return.

    really doesnt bear thinking about what those Tommy's saw and endured.

    I am reading Harry Patch's book now and it is an amazing story and i believe he is still around and at 110 is one of the few remaing tommy's.

    To think that when he finally goes there will be no remaining people alive that fought in that war is remarkable and a sobering thought
  • edited November 2008
    NLA,

    you mention Luton and Hertford.

    Was your Great Grandfather in The Bedfordshires or Hertfordshires by any chance?

    My Great Uncle was and I contacted Steve Fuller and he was very helpful although as yet I also have been unable to locate a photo.

    Here is the link in case it could be of use to you.

    http://www.bedfordregiment.org.uk/
  • edited November 2008
    yes mate i have spoken to steve ( small world) and he done some tracing for me but he couldnt find a picture either :-(

    i bet they proberly knew each other and served together

    he ended up finishing his service with them

    somehow someway he went from the Ox and Bucks regiment into them but and fought along the hindenberg line
  • Got something in my eye now... I went to Ypres, Menin Gate, etc. years ago. Not something I'll forget. Remember being shocked finding out that all the names on walls etc. were of soldiers who were never found. Is it still Toc H that maintains the cemeteries?
  • edited November 2008
    In memory of my Great Great Uncle John Gregson killed in action on 25th September 1915 during the Battle of Loos, while serving in the 8th Batt. of the Royal Berkshires.

    Reading the war diaries from that particular day, his battalion suffered heavy casualties in an attack on the German lines at Loos & the subsequent counter-attack they fought off.
  • If you get the chance to read the book about Harry Patch's life and what it was like for him as a young man growing up and what happened to him during the Great War then do it is as important that we know what it was like as it is to remember those that fell, not just from our school books but this is an encounter of life from the eyes of one of the last few Tommy's some one who was there and the real life detail of what hell really must be.



    I fell in a trench. There was a fella there. He must have been about our age. He was ripped shoulder to waist with shrapnel. I held his hand for the last 60 seconds of his life. He only said one word: 'Mother'. I didn't see her, but she was there. No doubt about it. He passed from this life into the next, and it felt as if I was in God's presence. I've never got over it. You never forget it. Never.
    —Harry Patch, last survivor of Passchendaele, 12/07/2007


    Some of the boys buried here are the same age as me, killed on the same day I was fighting. Anyone of them could have been me. I didn't know whether I would last longer than 5 minutes. We were the Poor Bloody Infantry and we were expendable. What a terrible waste.

    —Harry Patch 29/7/07[9]
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